A speaker at a recent Family Education Program presented various options and approaches to treatment. Each FEP meeting draws a diverse crowd of people in terms of the recovery spectrum and the recovery process. Some of the attendees are in the midst of a substance use disorder. Some have family members in the midst of a substance use disorder. Some have family members in long-term recovery, some are in long-term recovery themselves.
In this particular meeting, a mother and father raised their hands to ask how to get their loved one into treatment. They have heard all the options before, but their loved one is stubbornly resistant. They believe they know the options, and they now need to know how to capitalize on them. They were frustrated, fed up. I don’t know this for sure- but I would guess they felt their situation was unique and that their loved one was more stubbornly resistant than the average bear.
Their predicament highlights perhaps the central problem family’s encounter once they discover a loved one needs help. But, at the same time, the question also highlights a problem in terms of how they have been coached to approach recovery.
What problem? I’ll tell you tomorrow.