We become faithful people when we choose to enter in to God's process of shaping us into faithful people.
When we say it this way, we're acknowledging that we're not in control of the outcome that God has in mind for us (individually or collectively). We enter into the process of doing what we can to create space in our lives (and the community's life) for God to move in whatever ways in which he chooses to work.
We may never know the ways in which God chooses to work. All the more reason to dedicate ourselves to be in process and live in radical acceptance. We are only able to control the process we dedicate ourselves to, never the end results. That process creates space for God's movement. And so the process is our goal. It's all we can do.
The rest we leave to God. And we learn to accept whatever that is. God may have specific goals and ends in mind for us.
That's his prerogative. He's God.