When do we address harm head-on?
When do we confront "wrongdoers"?
Based on our conversation about the limits of forgiveness, addressing the harm with the wrongdoer is something that happens in an “in community” kind of relationship. Or, I suppose, a relationship that generally has proven itself safe to do so. There are harms that may be addressed with people who aren’t part of our “hut” but who are mature, confident, reasonable, rational adults capable of sitting through a difficult conversation without creating any additional harm. These are the types of situations where it is appropriate to address the harm head-on.
Outside of these, use your best discernment and rely on your closest confidants for wisdom.