“You think it’s just a small thing, don’t you, to try out another sin-project when the first one fails? But Egypt will leave you in the lurch the same way that Assyria did. You’re going to walk away from there wringing your hands. I, God, have blacklisted those you trusted. You’ll get not a lick of help from them.”
~ Jeremiah 2:36-37 The Message
Confusion. The Israelites are desperately in search of a life of safety and significance; they keep chasing after different dreams hoping to find the magic combination of love connection and purposeful living that brings them what they long for - wow, can you relate? I can.
When my mentors talked on and on about the most important thing I needed to know they spoke about what I needed to do: love well. I found this a hard pill to swallow. Today, I understand that in large part it seemed like a message without hope. I didn’t know how to love well and found few models for it when I looked around at the people I knew - and I knew some pretty awesome people. My confusion came in the form of black and white thinking. I thought that loving well meant loving perfectly - no selfishness, no conflict, no problems in relationships.
This is not what loving well means. Loving well is more related to loving wholeheartedly - it begins and ends with our love for God and is revealed in our capacity to give and receive love for ourselves and to others.
It isn’t about harmony - this kind of love is a battle cry! It’s isn’t about not making mistakes or ever having a relational snafu - it is about caring enough to figure out how to navigate and stay the course. Love God. Respect self. Let others love us. Learn how to love others.
How do you think you have confused love’s meaning in your own relationships?