Father, Give us a heart for earnest seeking. Help us appreciate the value of unconditional love and the real risk associated with knowing that all our relationships are appropriately conditional. Grant us the discernment to wisely understand that we can ruin relationships if we stubbornly resist change. Guide us as we navigate our own struggles with people who have betrayed us and for whom we have lost trust. And in all these things pour your grace and mercy upon us for we are weak and without you we are hopeless.