From yesterday: So, we must ask, does our contempt serve us well moving forward? Will it allow us any kind of quality of life?
I humbly suggest it does not and will not serve us well.
What do we do with our contempt, then? What is the alternative and how do we find it?
As I said, we must start with processing and learning to cope with the various causes of our contempt. I’d suggest we spend time with a skilled therapist and, perhaps, a trusted spiritual advisor. Other options would include finding an issue-specific support group. This recommendation sounds simple and obvious, but becoming willing to do this, and then follow through, is something few people do. Making a conscious choice to confront our wounds proves a major hurdle and most people are unwilling to do it.
Confronting the wound is our way of fighting back. It’s our attempt not to be defined by the worst things that have happened to us. It’s an effort to trust that life can have meaning in the midst of a darkness that feels so profoundly meaningless.
Of course, we’re trusting God to guide us in this process.