If you’ve been creating an inventory, then you are keenly aware of the lists that we have made. We have asked ourselves the questions in one form or another about the effect these resentments, fears, sexual history, financial security, emotional and even social issues have had on our lives.
When I did my first Fourth Step, many of my responses were focused on blaming others or justifying my reactions. I felt in many instances like a victim. Although these responses were common enough, they were not going to get me where I needed to go on this road to recovery.
How about you? Are you ready to put aside the habitual ways you have been thinking and feeling? Are you ready to DO something different?